feeling lonely
I feel alone. I feel so lonely. I feel unwanted, unloved and not-needed. I’m back to feeling as if I’m floating alone out in the open ocean with nary land nor life in sight.
Will somebody answer my call tonight?
I just want a cuddle - someone to wrap his arms around me, just so I am not alone. Just so I can stop thinking. Just so I don’t start to feel like doing stupid things to myself.
Is anyone listening out there?
I wonder how long and how far I can run from myself before it catches up with me… before I catch up with me… will I stumble… will I pick myself up… or will I finally cloak myself in darkness the next time?
Does anyone care?
I feel cold. I want someone to walk up behind me and give me a hug. I want to feel the warmth of another. The heat of someone alive. Just so I know I am not dead.
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I’m so tired of being alone
I’m so tired of on-my-own
won’t you help me
just as soon as you can
Posted on May 31st, 2005 by jl
Filed under: blah blah
Hi Jikon
Sorry to hear how you feel. You are not alone, unloved or unwanted but if that’s how you feel then that’s how you feel.
Although you and I are at different places on the various spectrums (or is the plural spectra?) of different needs, for what it’s worth, at times I feel like that also.
Try not to despair, though I realise that’s easier said than done…
Mike x
*cuddles*
Yup, someone is listening
***HUGS***
No one can be there for us all the time. But - yes - there are lots of us who do care.
gosh! where do you all come from? thank you. I’m not sure if I’m feeling better today - it’s too early in the morning to tell…
Hi my name is Andrea and I was reading what a couple of people had to say about feeling lonely.I fit some of these dicriptions, I feel lonely when I go to the mall and notice all of the couples walking and holding hands with their sinificant other, I feel so lonely on certain holidays, I also feel lonely the most when I go to sleep at night.I often find myself in tears a lot due to this. What can I do to stop feeling this way.
JESUS LOVES YOU
I know I am not alone, but I feel so lonesome. I keep busy, but I feel lonesome when I am not busy or I am just at home.
I feel the same way that you do but I feel that I’m not needed or wanted by anyone. For example, on saturday I met with some people and had a lot of fun but now I feel that the people who I went with don’t care about me and I feel pretty bad about that… I also get depressed because I think that everybody is having the times of their lives and I’m stuff in here in front of a pc.. I’m pretty depressed at the moment and I know what you’re going thru, if you want someone to talk to - my email is gtoso_hbk@hotmail.com
I know exactly how you guys feel. I have been single for a long time now, and I too feel lonely and depressed, sometimes more than others, definately being busy helps to cope. I tend to cope by reminding myself that longing for the warmth of another just shows that you have a big heart and when you do find someone special, they’ll be glad to have you!
Oh and you don’t need to turn to religion or some structured belief system to feel loved or cared for, you just need to remind yourself that all the billions of cells in your body are working their butts off to give you this experience of life! So love yourself because yourself loves you!
Dale x x
Mike x are you and I really at different places in life? Or did you decide to change your place, but you just didn’t let me know until I had to find out by myself. Yes, our needs were different, it is a shame that you got your needs met while I was at your home with your daughter.
When you abandoned me you abandoned everything we ever worked toward…your actions fall no where near the defintion of love. I am ’sure’ you are really in love now…or do you feel trapped? I know you well, you know you are trapped…can you see your way out? Too bad you could not look me in the eyes when you had the chance.