How paranoid can someone be….?

This is a chat I had today with a married man who is curious about gay-sex…

Paul: u at home
me: yeah
Paul: for how long
me: dunno
Paul: ok
Paul: r u horney?
me: yeah
Paul: want me to fuck u
me: sure
Paul: i can be there in 30min
me: ok
Paul: i’ll sms u to open the door
me: ok
Paul: u pretend to come out then back in
Paul: u std free?
me: as far as i know
Paul: thats not a confident answer
me: well… i don’t go for a medical check up everyday
Paul: have u had unsafe sex
me: not recently
Paul: maybe i should leave it
me: your call
Paul: i think your hiding aomething from me
Paul: something
me: i’m not hiding anything from you
me: i last had a thorough medical check-up in December and that was clean
me: and as far as I am aware i haven’t done anything to change that situation
me: on the other hand, you’ve been very undecisive about this whole thing…
Paul: yes i have
Paul: the thought of fucking u turms me on
Paul: but it is the risk of catching something that scares me
me: then don’t fuck. settle for a blow job
Paul: ok
Paul: i’ll sms u
Paul: but u sound unsure yourself
me: i’m unsure if you’re ever going to come - so I’m not holding my breath
Paul: lol
Paul: good answer
Paul: can i trust u that u r clean
Paul: that u will not tell anyone
me: i don’t know any of your friends or work colleagues, so that’s not likely to happen but again, where my health is concern i can only tell you what i know for sure
Paul: r u going to tell any of your friends
me: that i may - but to be honest, what do i know excpet your first name?
Paul: ok we shall leave it
Paul: thanx

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I though it was rather ironic and rich of him to be moralising with me when he’s married with 3 kids and has already been fooling around with other women, most likely without his wife’s knowledge… And he’s only in his early 30s - if he was older I might buy the argument that he grew up in a time when being gay was taboo, impossible and all that shit; or that the marriage is now “dead” or whatever… but for him to be cloaking himself with moral superiority at his age, doing what he does, really does take the cake…

Honestly! If you’re going to fuck ass, fess up!

p/s girls, i’d watch your husbands if i were you… this guy may be sick, weird, dispicable or whatever else, the fact is he’s not the only one out there… trust me on this - i know! it’s my karma to attract this sort…

Posted on October 17th, 2005 by jl
Filed under: Life's gay!