white hair experiences
I discovered a white hair on me yesterday. It was on my pubes! It was at least one inch long. I don’t normally complain about length in the pubic area but a white hair is a no, no! All of a sudden, I’ve become Samantha Jones!
Age has become an interesting theme with me lately. It wasn’t until very, very recently that I discovered my sexual confidence. I was never so full of myself to think that I was sexually attractive, highly desirable and that men would lap at my feet at every corner. But I’m slowly coming round to the realisation that really, I’m not all that bad. I may not be a hunk but I’m not unattractive. I’m not the hottest property in town, but I’m nevertheless desirable. I am intelligent and I have an interesting personality. Age and experience have added a veneer of sophistication and mature confidence to my appeal.
The problem at the moment is that I seem to be meeting all the right guys at either the wrong place or the wrong time; or I’m meeting the wrong guys at the right place and the right time. The trick I guess is to keep waiting - to keep waiting in the certain knowledge that one day, the right guy will turn up at the right place at the right time.
Meanwhile, as of Day 03 of my Sydney trip, the men-count is: 01 stand-up, 01 fuck, 01 date (and pash), and 01 lunch (with man of my dreams). So, no. I’m not doing too badly for my age.
Posted on December 16th, 2005 by jl
Filed under: Life!, Life's gay!
Go to a sauna and your fuck tally will skyrocket - or at least, double :-p
Hi Jikon… sorry I’ve been so quiet but I’ve been on my “annual Asia trip”… 3 weeks this time - KL, Bali, KL, Bangkok, KL and Singapore. Phew!.. and no, I’m not going to share the stats! Not here anyway…. besides, have to work them out first!
As regards white hair… well, as you know, I am “follically challenged” and have been since my late 20s…. and it’s now going grey, and doing so rather quickly. I’m not sure why this all has never really bothered me that much, but what bothered me so much more was when a long, curly, white chest hair appeared… Hmm, why is that?
Finally, your other posts here about gay men and commitment are of course generally right, but the near-700 or so couples who registered their partnerships in the UK yesterday does counter that view slightly…. although I’m ambivalent about the whole partnership thing in general I think it has done tremendous things to take equality forward and it’s something I can actually rate Tony Blair for…. and the media have generally taken his lead in the way they’ve reported e.g. Elton & David… no-nonsense reports generally saying it’s kind-of about time
OK, that’s all for now… you still in Sydney? Did you follow Jay’s advice? Hmm, wonder what your tally is now?!
oh Jay… saunas are just not my thing…!
Mike: I shudder to think what your statistics are for this 3-week trip… I wouldn’t be surprise to hear that you’ve done more in these three weeks than I have in my entire lifetime - remember, I’m still on double digits here!
Yes, I’m happy to note that the UK now permits civil-registration of same-sex partnerships and that this is a move in the “right” direction, however I dare ask, how many of the gay partnerships being registered are monogamous…??